Published August 2015
Genres: New Adult, Young Adult
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It’s all Ryden’s fault. If he hadn’t gotten Meg pregnant, she would have never stopped her chemo treatments and would still be alive. Instead, he’s failing fatherhood one dirty diaper at a time. And it’s not like he’s had time to grieve while struggling to care for their infant daughter, start his senior year, and earn the soccer scholarship he needs to go to college.
The one person who makes Ryden feel like his old self is Joni. She’s fun and energetic—and doesn’t know he has a baby. But the more time they spend together, the harder it becomes to keep his two worlds separate. Finding one of Meg’s journals only stirs up old emotions, and Ryden’s convinced Meg left other notebooks for him to find, some message to help his new life make sense. But how is he going to have a future if he can’t let go of the past?
The worst day in Ryden Brooks‘ life was probably day his daughter was born. It took so much away from him; yet left him with such a heavy load to carry. He will never see his daughter’s mother again, as Meg Reynolds‘ cancer-ridden body dedicated its remaining strength to giving birth to their daughter Hope.
What Meg left behind overshadows Ryden’s joy of becoming a father. He will forever live with the guilt of killing Meg by getting her pregnant, and thus forcing her to stop her treatment. He forever live with the guilt of being an inadequate father, as he is struggling to make ends meet while trying to keep up good grades to finally make it into college. But Meg also left behind journals, that Ryden is desperate to find to get some kind of closure. Except instead of closure, all Ryden finds is anger and betrayal.
What I loved about this book:
- The depth of the characters
- The suspenseful storyline
- The heartfelt and tear-threatening emotions
What I felt needed improvement:
What You Left Behind was probably one of the most heartfelt and tear threatening reads that I came across so far in 2015. When I read the plot summary, I knew I had to pre-order this. And gosh, I can’t say I was disappointed because this is definitely the kind of read that sticks with you, and that leaves you thinking and wondering way beyond the end of the book.
The plot summary definitely sets the tone of the story and the reader knows exactly what to expect: a teenage-dad who, between changing diapers and managing to get his stuff together for school and college, mourns the loss of his first love and soulmate.
What You Left Behind was written entirely from Ryden’s POV – so you get the full idea of what is going on in his head. And while this storyline might sound “lame”, it totally isn’t. Because circumstances make it that Ryden won’t let go of the past even though his daughter, his situation, and the connection he makes with Jodi prompt him to look forward instead of back: he is literally trapped in memories of Meg and in his desire to have closure – even if he still holds himself responsible for killing her by getting her pregnant. Yet, Ryden firmly believes that the journals Meg left behind will provide him the closure he needs.
And on top of dealing with those feelings – the loss and the guilt – he also battles his inadequacy at being a dad. He is convinced that due to the fact that he never had a father, he will never be a good one himself. In the end, all his frustrations radiate off him, along with his denial of fatherhood, and affect his daughter, who senses his distress.
“What if I am literally incapable of being a father to this baby because I have zero concept of what a father really is?”
And all that time, Meg remained this untouchable, holy creature you could almost call a martyr. It is a common thing that when a loved one dies, he or she is being but on a pedestal and granted absolution for every faulty thing they might have done before they left. Even though at the beginning, Meg really appears as if she never did anything to harm anyone.
But as the story progresses – and the journals reveal more and more – the reader gets a different impression of her. I really started to resent her more and more throughout the book. Not because of what she did (since I could relate to her motives) but the way she did it just left me brokenhearted from Ryden. She relieves him of that feeling of guilt he carries around just to give him that feeling back tenfold, but on another subject.
View Spoiler »I was actually extremely mad at Meg for recklessly dropping the bomb she dropped. Through her journals, she basically explains that she got pregnant on purpose, which somehow helps relieve Ryden of the guilt he carried for not preventing the pregnancy via the use of a condom. But then – a few sentences later – she explains that she mistook the signs of her developing cancer for the typical signs of the “lovesickness” she felt back when she harboured a secret crush for Ryden. In other words, she is blaming Ryden, because if she hadn’t been crushing on him, she would have discovered the cancer sooner. This part of the book really killed me. While Meg managed to “make her mark and leave her legacy” through giving life to Hope, it very much happened at the expense of Ryden. It made him loose pretty much everything: Megan, his friends, his free time, and his dream to get a sports scholarship to UCLA. All of that wasn’t fair to him and it’s not like he deserved it. Although Meg seems to think he deserved it because he was the reason she wasnt diagnosed fast enough. What an utterly outrageous though process! It made me want to strangle her! « Hide Spoiler
The whole book and story was absolutely captivating and Ryden’s POV and quest for answers made it a complete pageturner. The discovery of the journals, one by one, make for huge and unexpected twists in the story. The writing was so skillfully executed – taking place in the present, yet allowing the journals to act as revealing flashbacks from the past – that I felt engaged at all times: I wanted to know what happened between Ryden and Meg before she died and gave life to their daughter Hope; I wanted to know how Ryden was going to handle taking care of Hope while succeeding at school; I desperately wanted to know if there were any other journals like he expected there to be (and if so, what they would tell him); and… I wanted to know what the deal was with Joni.
But thankfully, while this book was sad, it was full of strong characters. I liked every single one of the features characters because they were not your usual protagonists: some were peculiar and some were downright anti-heroes. I loved Alan (Meg’s best friend), but also Mable and even Ryden’s mom. As for Joni, she is both a side and a main character in this story and she was just perfect. A ray of sunshine in Ryden’s world.
“How did I not see it from day one? Joni makes everything better. She makes it easy to forget.”
I simply loved Ryden. He was the perfect main character. He was down to earth, human, vulnerable, and struggling with very realistic issues. He was perfect through all his imperfections. His evolution throughout the book is tremendous, and I was amazed by how easy it was to relate to him through all the sh*t he’s been dealt with, when he really wasn’t asking for it.
And, what I loved most about What You Left Behind is that it doesn’t end in your usual cookie-cutter happy ending, but rather with a morale that engages the reader to reflect further on this book. It’s one of those Young Adult books (it might border a little onto New Adult) which manage to rise above their genre and become meaningful stories and life-lessons. In the end, I guess that one phrase sums up the morale of the book quite well:
“Just because the whys have changed, doesn’t mean the whats have.”
This basically means that you can always go looking for reasons why, and they might even help you understand how you got where you are now. But chances are you will never be able to get a do-over, and your situation will remain unchanged. And in Ryden’s case he will just have to make the best of it because things are what they are.
And no matter how angry I was at Meg in the end of the book (and at her frankly appalling and reckless behaviour), I couldn’t rate this book any less than 5 full stars, because the way the situation was turned around mattered more than what led to the situation in the first place.
I was disappointed not to get an epilogue though, because it would have been interesting to find out how Ryden put things into perspective with the help of the unexpected Joni; how he got his life straight a few years down the road, and if he finally managed to let go of the past in order to move on.
But all in all, this read was a captivating masterpiece I would highly recommend you check out. It’s like a wonderful reunion of The Fault in Our Stars and a healthy dose of Colleen Hoover, with it’s own Jessica Verdi signature style.
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